Emotional Design

In New York City, only 36.2 percent of households are married, while 64 percent are unmarried, according to household data from Statistical Atlas. Yet when you look at how most apartments are designed, the assumptions tell a different story.

Many solo homes are shaped around absence. An extra chair kept just in case. A table chosen for future guests. A layout that feels more like preparation than presence. Over time, this can create a subtle sense that something is lacking, even when life itself feels full.

Yet most homes are still imagined around couples, families, or shared living. When you live alone, this mismatch becomes visible very quickly. Spaces feel oversized or oddly segmented. Furniture feels performative instead of useful. Rooms feel unfinished, even when they are furnished. This is where emotional design becomes essential.